Are You Desperate?

YoungLadies, a man asking for your hand in marriage is not doing you a favor, (as if he is a do or die, it's him or hell, if I don't say yes, it's the end of my life, oh gosh........I better say yes by force or die ) please stop with your desperado attitudes.
He that finds a WIFE has found a GOOD thing, YES a very good thing as a matter of fact, he's gained a lifelong companion, bestfriend, wife, mother of his children, confidant, his number one defense.......hmmmm, I can go on and on.

You are a beautiful, wonderfully and fearfully made, an illustrious woman, educated, well breed, whose family loves and adores, whom they spent their hard made money to raise, you are not a beggar nor are you a worthless piece of trash, stop casting your pearls to the swine.

If you don't know your worth to know that you deserved the very best in life, you deserved to be loved and cherished then how do you expect a man to know, you will be treated how you give yourself out.

If you act desperate, you will be used and then be cast off for a woman that knows her worth.

I'm not saying that you should be proud or rude to a man, but know your worth, you mustn't sell yourself short, not every man that comes to you is meant to be your hubby, he asked must not automatically leads to a yes from you, he took you to his people is not a guarantee that you're the only one, he could have easily taken others.....learn to separate the MAN from the boys.

Just as he is gaining a good thing, you are also getting a good thing, a love, hubby, friend, protector, head of your household......so make sure the one you decided on is worthy.....

You are a good thing, but if you Thats a good thing don't know that you are a good thing.......how do you expect him to know that he has found a good thing.

Believe me, it is actually you that chooses your hubby, he may have came to you, but in the end, it is you that chooses, ( meaning, he was not the only one that wanted you, but he is the one you accepted )my sister, choose wisely..........not in desperation!