Before You Marry

You can be married for a Lifetime.. . Its in the possible, what you guys need to do as couple is to eject the idea of "Divorce" from ya minds.. .it shouldn't ever be thought of as an escape route away from hard times and troubles, when the idea of divorcing him/her is always on ya mind, you might just see ya self working towards bringing that into accomplishment.. .

That's ya other half, just like when a particular part of ya body is aching you, you don't just cut it off, you look for solutions to remove the pain and still retain that part of ya body,,,,so also is ya partner, they are family now.. . And when troubles avail, you don't seek for the exit door, you look for ways to tame it and still stay married.. .

Also, identify ya individual, religious, family differences is important coz they matter a lot, identifying & blending together this differences will make a big difference.. . Take time to explore family histories and patterns and see how you can adjust and fit in the picture before you marry, so ya wedding can last far more than just ya 5 years anniversary night.. .