Dating Married Men

Smilessssss, there's a proverb that goes, ohun ti o ba ni je, ma fi run imu ( what you can't/won't eat do not inhale it's aroma) don't buy what you won't use and enjoy...

You are dating someone whom deep down in your heart you know you can never marry, because of religion, tribe, skin colour, height, weight or any other ridiculous reason, why the hell are you stringin them along, why are you being so cruel.....
Why are you letting them invest their time and substances on your trifling ass?

And you that knows that she/he won't marry you cause of religion/tribe or what have you, and still there hoping she'll change her mind, why are you wasting your precious years? Why are you degrading yourself? Where is your Self worth? You are worthy and deserving of a love that can't live without you, a love that has no if, buts or ands about it......

Listen attentively during those conversations that goes on between lovers, during those joking moments out of that you'll be able to find out some truths about the relationship you're involved in, they say a drunken man is the most honest person you'll ever meet, during those joking, laughing moments if you listen well you'll hear some truth regarding you from your love....

Once something has been beating into a person, once a person has been brainwashed into believing only one thing, it's extremely hard to change their minds.

Meaning, if your love has been brainwashed into believing that their tribe/colour or religion is the only way..........runnnnnnnnm, or you will sacrifice your heart in the process....

DO NOT go after a married man because you want a piece of the meat, you will eventually choke on a bone.............

DO not date a woman old enough to be your granny because you want quick money.........you family will eventually cry at the sight of you....

Respect, self respect, Honor, dignity, boundaries..........important words to add to our list of newly learned word.........oh yes and KARMA.........

Safeguard your heart, most importantly, let you brain and mind be on overtime....