Am tired of love, for three good times i thought i found love and felt like getting married to these girls cos i proposed to them and they accepted my proposal but at the tail end they will all for for guys that has money. Now again this one that i fell in love since a year ago proposed to her which she accepted though I've been fighting tooth and nail to make it work and make her stay, i dont even have or like having another girl side her but she keeps suspecting me, i dont just know why. now she says that i should strive hard to start the traditional marital rite or else shes gonna marry another, meanwhile am a student though and even above the age of getting married (am in my late thirties) i dont just know what to do. But i know a good advice will help a lot here
Let her go, you are not ready. Don't tie her down. You are a student at 39 and you might graduate at 50. By then she'l be too old for you and no one else will marry her.
ReplyDeleteHow about searching again? You don't need marriage right now! You don't have the resources to keep a wife. Get into a relationship if you can't control your loins. Forget about this idea of you being above the age of getting married. You are not a woman, even @50, as long as you have the finances, you can secure a beautiful wife for yourself. Face your studies and strive to get a good class mark. No girl wants to marry a over-aged broke student. Finish your studies, get something doing and you will understand why women were treating you badly!
ReplyDeleteWhy wil u propose wen ur not fully ready? pls face ur carrier and future for no time is late especially for u men.Wen u made it,women wil look for u.Work hard,forget about marriage for sometime and pray to God for ur own wife.
ReplyDeleteBrother, for a girl to accept you marriage proposal means they love you,but they would eventually leave when they find out that you ain't financially ready to marry them.why would you propose to a girl when you ain't ready for marriage? Its really wrong.its like trying to negotiate the price of a material when you don't have money to buy it.the retailer would end up being mad at you.i respect your zeal towards education, you are indeed a living proof that age is not a barrier to education. i suggest you stop engaging ladies till you are finacially ready to do so.no lady is willing to wait,especially when she is almost passed marital age.you can still get married whenever you are ready. don't borrow to engage your present girl,she can go if she ain't willing to wait ,and do not blame her cause i feel her pain too.
ReplyDeleteBe sincere to ur self,are u ready to get married? d ans is NO! then why're u tying dem down in d name of marriage? its very bad,they're humans and have target for their lives.if u really want smth tangible,I'll advice u wait till u cn perform d bride rite and all that comes with a marriage. marriage its smtimes not based on age as u claim,its based on ur ability to carry out ur responsibilities as a man.when it comes men,age doesn't really count lik d women. go out,mk money and d lil amount u've will be gd enuff.
ReplyDeleteit always makes me sad when i read stories like that, what is wrong wt girls of nowadays that all they need is money? why do they expect a man to do d whole job? i mean why cant she say: hey u hv this, i hv that, lets put it together n start life d 2 of us. in life not everybody makes it, n it doesnt mean they dont deserve to hv family.
ReplyDeleteIt seems u are a lazy man. I have seen people dat work and school. at ur late 30's u comfortably still call urself a student. When will u graduate? Ur late 50's? U are not just broke but u are lazy as well. No woman wants a lazy man.
ReplyDeleteOh my goodness ...i feel ur pain bro.... be strong ...neva force a girl to stay with you ,, because if a girl can't be with you at hard times , she doesn't love you...and she doesn't deserve you
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