Most guys may not know, but girls do crush on guys equally if not more than guys do to them. I'm close to many girls and I do interact with them a lot. So I'm always around when they gossip about guys, the one they like that don't like them, the ones that are cool bla bla bla. I can say that girls gossip a lot about guys. But what I can't imagine is the pain of hiding your feelings and praying that maybe, just maybe the guy will one day come to ask you out! It must be really hard. Most of the girls I've ended up with admitted that they've always liked me right from the onset. So if you like someone why put him through all the stress of ignoring his calls, wasting his time, not appreciating him and atimes even abusing him publicly?
And when you do all this to him, you still pray and expect him to continue chasing you? Smh That's not even the issue. The real issue is; How do you ladies do this? How are you able to conceal your feelings for a man. Its very difficult for a man avoid a woman he likes, but women do it excellently. They stare at you and talk about you behind you, but when you turn around they quickly look away, lolz. They try all within their powers to hide it, atimes even becoming aggressive and mean at you.
Ladies how do you do it?
by Canice Dim
i don't know how to hide my feelings,if i like someone,i would definitely tell him..What's the use of hiding your feelings,and then at night,you find yourself thinking for that someone,if he likes you too or not,those what if's things.That will lead to sleepless nights,why would i do that?When i have the freedom to express myself.Unless,it's a crime to open up what you feel,.lolzzzz,.Some says,it's a cheap thing thing to approach a guy,.?What makes it cheap,when you are approaching a precious one,.?
ReplyDeleteNot all ladies though.
ReplyDeleteI've met the very bold soji ones. They'll tell you just the way it is.
Na the ones wey wan to 'ikwokirikwo' me dey make sense pass.
I wonder if Nature made it so, but until they sting you like bees, women are great pretenders in case you don't know!
ReplyDeleteFear of rejection & ridicule hardens a lady & stops her 4rm making dt mistake of exposing her feelings. If only guys could stop making jest of babes dt ask them out & stop sharing d gist over a bottle of beer how they dumped a babe cos she approached dem 1st...
ReplyDeletesome girls even wen d guy makes d 1st move wll be playing 'hard to get' until maybe d guy slips thruough their fingers like okro soup,then u will see dem crying in dia closets
Deletets just naija mentality, when a girl likes a guy and makes the move to express her feelings, she's seen as cheap, desperate, stupid, etc...and most guys take advantage of these to play girls like football, so i think the reasons why girls conceal their feelings for guys are; Fear of criticism. Fear of being abused. Fear of rejection. Let guys stop seeing girls that first approach them as CHEAP.
ReplyDeleteI don believe dat a gal sud approach d guy she had feelings for..its not called for.even if sum gals ve d confidence to do dat,i don consider it right.its not easy to hide dat feeling bt ur reputation as a lady matters... 1 question i ll like to ask is dat,in d bible,did EVE look for ADAM??
ReplyDeletea girl doesn't need 2 approach a guy. She can make herself subtly visible 2 him,make herself pleasant 2 d eyes so as 2 be seen in a positive light.
DeleteWhen a woman shows her feelings, she's taken as cheap and for granted
ReplyDeletebut talking about cheapness and rejection, we guys are taken to be cheap too and are rejected by girls uncountable times, when we approach girls, when we show her too much, when you go crazy abt her.
ReplyDeleteAt least i hav seen a girl making jest of a boy who approached her, just becos she thinks d guy is below her standard.
We guys also experience dis cheapness u talk abt but thats not the question, i think canice question is not why? But ''how are u girls able to perfect hide yur feelings frm a guy u love'' becos i knw that guys cant hide their feelings when they see a girl they like, not minding whether she rejects or not.
So pls ''how are u ladies able to perfectly hide feelings witout any trace?''' i really want to knw.
but talking about cheapness and rejection, we guys are taken to be cheap too and are rejected by girls uncountable times, when we approach girls, when we show her too much, when you go crazy abt her.
ReplyDeleteAt least i hav seen a girl making jest of a boy who approached her, just becos she thinks d guy is below her standard.
We guys also experience dis cheapness u talk abt but thats not the question, i think canice question is not why? But ''how are u girls able to perfect hide yur feelings frm a guy u love'' becos i knw that guys cant hide their feelings when they see a girl they like, not minding whether she rejects or not.
So pls ''how are u ladies able to perfectly hide feelings witout any trace?''' i really want to knw.
d society we find ourselves forbids a woman to first approach a man she cares deeply for...poor we!
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