Letter To Nigerian Ladies.......

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Dear ladies, Firstly, if you are still struggling to find a husband at an old age it's simply because you are looking for a perfect man. Something might be wrong with you. you say to yourself that 'All men are liars, cheats and useless, but let’s be honest here, which is more likely? Is it that there’s something wrong with about 170 million Nigerian men OR there is something wrong with one Nigerian Woman?

You Ladies certainly will not get into a blissful matrimony if you are always hanging out with your so call girlfriends every night at a beer palour or barwaiting for a guy to buy you a drink & take you home afterwards. Drinking yourself to stupor every Friday & Saturday night does not exactly make you look like marriage material.

You want a man?...invest in a good wardrobe & dress responsibly not like a mad person. When a man comes to you, smile & be polite, even if he does not fit your mental image of your kind of man. Ladies, stop coming to relationship with a chip on your shoulder. If you believe all men are bad & all men are Dogs, then it will become a self fulfilling prophesy. No man is perfect! You say you can't marry a blue collar guy like a mechanic or carpenter, Now if a carpenter was good enough to marry Mary mother of the Jesus Christ, why isn't one good enough for you?
Do not focus on where a man is now, but look and see where he has the potentials to be. What’s the point of being beaten to a pulp every night by some rich, good looking and non caring man? Do you want a future where you will sit in a traffic in your BMW X6, GUCCI sunglasses covering your swollen eyes and you look out of d window and see a happy couple in a keke napep holding hands and laughing like newly wedded couple even after 12 years of marriage.

Please don’t fake pregnancy or get pregnant to trap him, e no deywork again joor! Your perfect man is out there,believe, work and pray and you will get him...!

IF THE SHOES FIT WEAR AM.....