Your Boyfriend Is Not Responsible For Your Upkeep

These "LITTLE GIRLS" are out here in leggings, no job .... nothing... But yet they want a guy in a fresh haircut, his own house, a new car and makes at least 80mill a year. phew They believe it is their bfs job to give them money to fix their hair, nails etc and all they do to apperciate is give him sex. My dear, you are a prostitute . Your bf gives you money not because he wants to show he is the MAN, not because you give him sex but because he loves you and wants to see you do well. IT IS NOT HIS RESPONSIBLITY.... He isnt giving you money to get between your legs, if thats so he wouldnt be committed to you....... or are you the only one with a vag!!na? NO....everyother lady has one... so stop this mentality of, after all I am giving him sex, he needs to take care of me...... you should know that they are alot of girls who are ready to give him sex for free but he is with you because he loves you and he gives you money because he loves you, not because you give him sex... YOU ARE NOT ENTITLED TO HIS POCKET. Hmm ... Ladies... You can't set high standards for a man that you yourself don't even meet. I'm not saying that a man with NOTHING to offer is acceptable o..... Not by any means......But if you yourself also have nothing and you will only talk to or get to know someone who has a lot more than you or can pay your bills, then that makes you a GOLD DIGGER. You shouldn't judge a man's potential as a partner based on looks and materialistic things alone. If a guy is working hard and making an effort to be better, why can't y'all grow together? Huh?? Your goal should be to be a part of his success, not to live off of his success...... Stop trying to find a man that drives, instead find a man with morals and drive and then contribute and help him become a better man just by being a good woman. His successes will always be yours because he will always remember you being there for him...... On the good days and the bad days. And it goes both ways.You become better together as a unit. You will miss out on some amazing people when you judge them on what they do and don't have... Call it "standards" if you want. But I guess it takes a certain mindset to understand my way of thinking. Some girls need to grow up mentally before they start barking out demands from the opposite sex... Be GOAL digger not a gold digger