When it comes to sex and giving a woman the utmost pleasure, most of our men are quite lacking. Many of the women I have counseled say their men do not know what it takes to engage in long fore play as they are always, almost in a hurry to jump on them as long as the get an erecti0n.
The most frustrating aspect of sex for such women is that when they have finally tuned themselves to enjoy it, their men would have ejaculated, leaving them frustrated.
The most frustrating aspect of sex for such women is that when they have finally tuned themselves to enjoy it, their men would have ejaculated, leaving them frustrated.
let me say that according to a renown American sex expert, Dr Jerry Jones, 'if your aim is to please your woman, you must realize that there are many levels of 0rgasms.
There are the little and quick 0rgasms, the good m0aning 0rgasms and the all out screaming 0rgasms that let you know you've done everything right. It's what many refer to as the hour-long 0rgasm.'
From my perspective, I always tell men that the best way to enjoy sex is to make sure you bring your woman to that 0rgasm she desires and if you do this, she will always look forward to sex with you and that 'headache' excuse will be a thing of the past.
Every woman wants to get to that point and the ability to take them there gives you an edge over them. Do not be in a hurry to satisfy yourself and leave her hanging. Your aim every time you have sex is to give her the ultimate pleasure.
Dr Jones tells us that the key giving your woman the kind of 0rgasm we are talking about here is called the 'Venus Butterfly Technique,' which is a detailed process that, if done correctly, can leave your woman shuddering in front of you for up to an hour as waves of ecstasy take over her body.
Here is how the technique works:
Start with the Cl!t0ris
As we all know, (and for those who do not know), the cl!toris is the area outside the woman's vag!na and is shaped like a miniature pen!s. It is about the most sensitive part of a woman's vag!na which, when stimulated, brings her untold pleasure. Gently push back the skin on the cl!toris so you have exposed the small pea-like point at the tip of the cl!toris.
Then stroke it gently back and forth, either your finger or tongue. If you are into what we call kinky sex, you could introduce a vibrator into the mix.
To achieve the ultimate result, you should alternate between long and short strokes, without getting too rough. You must take your time as this is a slow building process. When you do this right, your woman will get more and more ar0used and begging you to come into her.
But, hold it. That is not the best time to penetrate her, just yet. Just continue with this labour of love and watch her thrash about, begging you to literally kill her. In most cases, she would come just by this technique, so you move on to the next step.
Move on to the vag!na
After engaging the cl!toris for a reasonable time and get her all excited, it is now time to move to her vag!na and massage the hole thoroughly. My best advise here is to use your tongue to circle the hole. The reason for using the tongue is because it is quite sensitive and with the saliva mixing with her juices, she will get the most exciting time of her life. After a little while go back to the cl!toris stimulation until she has moved up one more step towards 0rgasm.
Do not forget the G-Sp0t
While still stimulating her cl!toris, you should use your other hand to find her G +Spot. For the avoidance of doubt, the G-+spot is the most er0genous area of the vag!na that, when stimulated, may lead to strong sexual ar0usal, powerful 0rgasms and female ejaculation. It is located 2–3 inches up the front (anterior) vag!nal wall between the vag!nal opening and the urethra.
It is located just inside the vag!nal wall, a few inches up. Flick your fingers upward inside the vag!na and you are sure to find the G-sp0t. Concentrate on this for a while and see the effect you will have on your woman.
Enjoy the big 'O'
When you have taken your time to treat her inners this way, it should not be long before she orgasms. Dr Jones tells us that there are two types of 0rgasm, the internal and the external 0rgasms, and you should not stop at just one.
You should keep stimulating her until she has had both an internal 0rgasm and an external one. If this is done properly, she will keep feeling waves of pleasure moving through her body for some time after you stop.
Employing these steps identified above will ultimately help you in your quest to please your partner, however there is certainly much more to know.
You will surely become an expert in pleasing your woman if you follow these steps.
Credit: Pulse
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