Hello Naija Village, please hide my ID and post this as fast as you can cus its really bothering me.I went to visit my niece and she took me to her friend's place,while there I met her friend's brother and we started talking getting to know each other,we do go there everyday and that made me and the guy have more chance to talk he has been telling me he likes me and would want us to have something in common. though I began to have feelings for him before then, so last nite something happened.... my niece left me alone at his place and we had sex. I dont know if what I did was wrong though I also wanted it but the problem now is that he hasnt even spoken to me since morning. I dont know if he is shy or what. should I just tell him to put what happened aside and pretend it never happened? Mature advice please.
Lol am sure the call button on your phone still works, why not call him? But my sister u don open leg now now, na so we wan dey open the thing before u meet your husband?
ReplyDeleteJust keep calm,if he calls gud,if he doesn't life continues.....
ReplyDeleteDude's shy! Give hime time he'll come around
ReplyDeleteUr niece took u to a man's place n left u d n d next thing u could think of to do is have sex, do u really know what a niece is?!!! Anyway his not shy his just so embarrassed at u that u could have sex with him so quick n easily, if ur d one to go tell him again to forget it ever happened is so weired, pack ur stuff n go to ur house girl n save ur little dignity left ok
ReplyDeleteI know you are probably feeling used and cheap now? When you engage in sex without any committments, you have to suffer the consequences. That is a typical guy's reaction (not calling); the chase is the fun part, once he has gotten the prize; then it is on to the next conquest. If you cannot accept this or if your feelings get in the way, then slow down a little before having sex until you get to know the intentions of the person. Guys would tell you they want a relationship to get between the legs. Just take it for the enjoyable experience it was and move on.
ReplyDeleteKeep Calm. He will still speak to you. Its not long enough.. And even if he doesn't speak to you, accept ur fate. The reason u seem that way is cus u fink he has used and dump you.. U guys used eachother. Remember you said you wanted it too
ReplyDeleteHe said he wants sumtin in common,dat is d sex na. U both hv sumtin in common now.
ReplyDeleteWhere is ur PRIDE? U evn have d courage to come here & saying though u want it.....Dont u av shame????? U realy lack decency as isaac said earlier. U are as cheep as anytin. Infact u are disgrace to ladies. Beta go and change. Tomorow may be late for u
ReplyDeleteHave u ever seen a politician campaigning after winning election?
ReplyDeletesome people condemning this lady are not any better
ReplyDeleteL0l. s0me guys wicked die. s0me girls sha.. h0ney, just m0ve 0n. guy tasted the h0ney p0t, t0 him it didnt taste go0d thats why he aint ringing y0ur bells any m0re.
ReplyDeleteIt's probably the nerves and after the fact regret that is doing you. If reverse was the case and he came on to you and you never did anything..You won't be this worried.You just feel you have invested in something and your shares might crash soon.lol.Jokes aside, sex is sex never see it as a loss as long as you used protection.Like you said, you also wanted it.
ReplyDeleteCool! Your write up shows maturity, so i'll just say cool it down, he is gonna call. If he doesn't? Its his loss.
ReplyDeleteHe will call you again when he want 2 have sex again so wait until he is horney again I bet u,he will call u
ReplyDeleteIts a psychological thing...Guilty pleasure or just pleasure, that desire to want them "in the moment" and when your done that desire is gone because you had your quick fix.
ReplyDeleteSometimes we are the cause of our own predicament. Ladies please note that the moment a guy sleeps with you outside wedlock, your value has reduced drastically. If he continues to love you truly (without cheating on you) then he's a true, real born again and has the fear of God. How would you know? He'd ask you for forgiveness, ask that you both ask God for forgiveness, and he wouldn't do it again. And then he'll take the relationship to another level of commitment towards getting married to. A girl that can't keep herself from having intercourse with a guy (even if he's her BF) doesn't have immunity/dignity from the guy.. #PainfulTruth. I pray that God will save us and our generation from immorality, it's now so free and guiltless #Pheww..
ReplyDeleteMy goodness. It was just sex! Let a man alone lady. He's probably sensed your neediness and run a mile lol!
ReplyDeleteMaybe he is busy,u might just be jumping into false conclusion,and if it continues like dat,u can talk it out with him okay?
ReplyDeleteTo you people condemning her act you guys can do worst than her. Am very sure there is someone that need your love, care and attention just try and overlook dis looser and give the guy a chance and stop sweating on dis looser cus all he want is just to get down with you which he has already achieve. ThankGod u said is a mutual fin so move on
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