9 Reasons a Small Pen is Doesn't Necessarily Mean He's Bad in Bed

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1. Your va gina probably isn't that deep. Most va ginas are about 4.75 inches, which is approximately the same size as the average pen is, which means anything extra won't even be beneficial. If you've got an average-size va gina, a larger penis is just going to be like super-sizing your meal when you're not that hungry.

2. Most women don't 0rgasm from v aginal penetrati on alone. Only about 1 in 5 women can 0rgasm from v aginal penetrati on alone, which means his 0ral and digital skills are (statistically speaking) way more important.

3. It's less about size and more about proportion. On average, women tend to prefer a pe nis that looks proportionate to the guy it's attached to, so "too big" or "two small" might be less about the actual length and more about appearances.

4. If it's too big for you, it can easily be uncomfortable. Bigger isn't always better. If his pe nis is too big for your v agina, it can actually hurt or cause discomfort during s ex. If your man is getting the job done, going any bigger won't necessarily help you any.

5. There's no direct correlation between size and satisfaction. Studies have shown that women don't always get more satisfaction out of a larger pen is. Essentially, just because he has a bigger pen is doesn't mean he's good at s ex or knows how to use it well. There's no magic inches-to-0rgasm exchange rate.

6. It's way easier to work around a small pe nis than it is to change other things about how he s exes. If he's a terrible kisser or bad at going down on you or a selfish lover, you're going to have a hard time changing those habits. But a small pen is? You can just put a vibrating cock ring on him and everyone's happy.

7. There are still positions that will make his pen is size work for you. So maybe he pops out during vigorous d0ggy-style, but there are still positions that will make his pen is size work for you.

8. Don't forge positions that make a pen is feel bigger.  Unless you've seen a ton of penises IRL, you're probably basing your idea of penis size on porn. Which is like basing your expectations of Little League players on the New York Yankees.

9. He's probably more ambitious in the bedroom because of it. Sex is great, but don't ignore a guy just because he's on the small side. He's probably fully aware that he's on the small side, and if he really cares about you, he'll find a way to please you in the bedroom.

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