Good morning good people. May God continue to bless your good Works. Please hide my ID and notify me when posted. Am a guy of about 35 years. My girlfriend of 2years, she is about 32 years. I have done virtually everything for her. She told me that she is a virgin, but she never allowed me to check myself and I believed her totally, I noticed/heard she has been going out with some guys in my neighbourhood and when I asked her she denied it. After that day, her countenance towards me changed. Now, I don't even know what to do. I feel like killing this girl, she has eaten me dry, I had all my hope on her. I even noticed she changed my name in the phone I bought for her from "my heart" to "bro.................". My heart is broken, she no longer call/flash me as she used to again.I don't even trust girls again. Please my people, what do you advice.? thanks.
Bro, you want to kill who? I know you are hurt but you are the one that calls for it. At 35years, someone claiming virginity at 32years and you are happy by spending your last kobo with her? She dry you, are you a water? Bro, at 35yrs you don't know different between wife and side chicks. Chai, you are spending but you don't touch her. I'm sorry, you are a boy at 35years. She turns you to National Cake! You better talk sense to yourself, before she next use you as a collateral for collecting bank loan. Wise up!
ReplyDeleteA virgin @ 32? Mmmmm dats serious and u fell for it, from d look of things she's not ready to settle down with anyone @ her age she only wanted what she has collected from u dats all. No need to kill her or take a revenge on her jst let her go cos God has his ways of doing things she will surely come bck to u, and if u hd or hv interest in her why haven't u taken her to mama yet? U had to wait for her to make a fool out of u before u knw her intentions things are not done in such way,jst let her be she will come around.
ReplyDeleteYou failed to understand that its NOT your duty to carter for a girl's needs. If you do it, you are just been generous. She owes you nothing. So just move on with your life and learn your lesson. Killing her will solve no problem but destroy your destiny.
ReplyDeleteAbeg no vex my broda, but I wonder how u allowed ursef to b fooled. Just let her b and let karma finish it job
ReplyDeleteIts very clear dah she never loved you for ones she is jst after ur money nd now she has gotten what she want nd has seen a new dude who she wants to rundry again jst let her b nd look for some one who deserve you
ReplyDeleteYou were so stupid spending your money on a girl that's fucking other men. I always say, don't try to impress girl with money. She doesn't love u so forget her and .move on.
ReplyDeleteMoney is nothing. Thank God u have not married her yet
Hmmm,what an ingrate! My take,is that if you can wisely recover some things do. But if you can't -may be because she is proving stobborn or you personally do not wish to;then just do leave her. But never you go the violence or force way. Instead,live that ingrate for nature-that is God knows the best way of dealing with such heartless(conscienceless)beans,even when they marry. But let me repeat,do not harm or kill. So she won't lead you into avoidable problems;which are capable of further compounding your better/bright life and career. And on a final note: Yes,she as a greedy soul,may try staging a come back. But do be hesitant,to accept her back,only if you wish. But for me, I doubt if I can.But however it is and above all, you better be more 'CAREFUL',especially the way you worship and spend on any woman;in the name of non existent so called love(whether for marriage or friendship),in your subsequent relationship(s). Just do bear in mind,they are principally after your money(if not,let them try or agree dating a truck pusher). For no true love exists outside money.Hence be careful!!! Telling you this out of experience. And I'm very much aware,they(women)are not gonna like this my candid stance,but no apologies ;even though, there are even similar conscience and lazy guys out there. "Ma oburu na I bu nwannaa,chetakwa na ndi Igbo,si na agaghi ekworo maka mgbagbu wee ghara ogu".So do take care,even as I sincerely sympathise with you brother!
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