I'm a 27-year-old lady and my husband is 31 years. We got married four months ago, we attend the same church, we even met in the church and we are both active. He is in the ushering department while am in the choir and we are both born again.
Am telling you all this for you to know we are not babies in the spirit. Our courtship was sex free, as you know now, no touching, kissing nor romancing. We seldom visit each other at home due to our church strict restriction on that. And when I do I never went beyond his sitting room maybe if I had done otherwise, I would have known about this before now. Our wedding ceremony was great and we settled down to marital life.
Two months after, my husband has a cause to travel out of town, it was on a Saturday and I decided to clean the room as I was re-arranging the clothes in the wardrobe, a parcel fell on my leg, at first I ignored it but on a second thought I picked it up to check what was inside, I received the greatest shock of my life, my husband has been watching porn0graphy! The parcel actually contained different porn movies. I felt sad and dejected. I tried to check his laptop if he has such things there but it has been pass-worded.
I didn’t confront when he returned and I pretended as if nothing happened. That night I took his phone when he was fast asleep and searched through it, behold he has p0rn movies on his phone too! But I still kept my cool. I had to let the cat out of the bag when one month later he asked if I like MouthAction and he want us to it give a trial. He said watched porn movies so that he will be able to satisfy me in bed. To say that I was shocked is an understatement. I told him I can’t indulge in MouthAction.
He has been pestering me for this. How can I engage the same mouth I use to pray, to speak in tongues in MouthAction? Since then he has been behaving funny. He keeps to himself; he is not even interested in making love with me and I’m yet to get pregnant.
Is this right? Doesn't feel right to me.
He's ur hubby so thers nuffin wrong if he ask u to held him, u can do any type of sex wit ur hubby d only thing I won't advice to do is annal sex any oda 1 so far he's ur husband no problem,if he ask and u didn't do it am so sowi 4 u
ReplyDeleteMa dear, d day she got married, she vowed to cherish him with her body nd soul, so nothing is wrong. You can have blow job but u can gossip with same mouth?Stop being a hypocrit
ReplyDeleteMadam Poster,Please which church are you going?
ReplyDeleteCan you read your last stories again?
Where in the bible was God talked against oral sex?
Please forget that mentality and please your husband.
You guys are legally married and there is no type of sex that is a sin only but the one through the anus.
Continue being over religious until you find condom inside your hubby's wardrope or find him ontop of another woman who gives him the mouthAction as he desires. Na that time your eyes go clear.
Omo see over religiousness o.
You don't even know what ur pastor & his wife doing to themselves on the bed and u are here claiming holier than God Himself. U better safe ur marriage than allowing side chicks giving it to him raw out there.
ReplyDeletesister your husband is not a born again Christian. a born again Christian adheres to God instruction. a born again Christian live a exemplary life of christ. a born again Christian loveth not the things of the world. your husband is just a Christian not a born again christain. for your husband to be watching such prone shows he is carnal minded about the things of the world. so my dear as your husband you need to talk to him, reminds him, he is carnal minded about such things which it wil wreakens his spiritual stamina.for the fact that he is your husband, Which God have brought together, sex is mearnt for married couples which is not a sin before God. if he do insist about such mouth action DO IT WITH HIM. is not a sin before God. but reminds him of his spiritual weaken stamina towards christ.
ReplyDeletewhen u say ''THESAME MOUTH I USED IN PRAYING'' i think u're wrong bcos there is no part of the bible that describe how couples should make luv.
ReplyDelete...don't let over holiness spoil ur marriage
Hello young lady.... Don't see ur husband like a siner. I am a devoted christain like u. But u see one of the things that kips a marriage shining and peaceful is a good sex life. U re lucky he didn't go out. Wen u started ur parcel story, I thot u were gonna say, he had kids outside or cheating...... Belief mi, he loves u. He waited for only God knows how long and u think he's a wood??? Pls don't let's go far.... Just do his wish if u don't want a broken marriage. He's nau ur husband not ur boifrnd... Which u re entitled to do silly love games togeda... Do u know how ur pastor get it (sex)from his wife? Do u knw if dey blowjob and do silly matured styles too? Pls just kip ur marriage and see no even in dis. The bible we read says and I quote#respect ur husband and obey his instructions# this same bible says# A good woman kips is home, while d foolish destroy it# don't push him out pls...
ReplyDeleteIf u love yourself, u btr start giving him d mouthAction. If u don't want another woman 2give him more than u can offer. We need prayer 2keep marriage as much as we need sweet,romantic,fun,blow job,hand job, Sucking of p***y and so on. U should be happy his reason 4watching porn is 2give u d best feelings while making love 2u, d way u cook good food 4him should be d way u give him good sex,even if he wants his dick inside ur mouth for 1hour.
ReplyDeleteSo you have to do anything to save marriage forgotten that there is no marriage in heaven . Everyone will be judged individually. salvation is personal. Meanwhile lets him who thinks he stands take heed less he fall. Is your husband dnt Judge him but rather exalt him,admonish him then humbly make him reason with you. even publicising marital issues is not good. can 2 walk together except they agree? No Now I believe truly that marriage aren't for babes, you said you are a believer ( salvation ) you should be able to seek God's face. dnt complain ur marriage is still young study ur man and be a virtous woman. stay bless
ReplyDeleteMouth action!!! lolzzzz 100%. My dear if 99%of ladies here are telling u to Mouth action ur husband's thing i swear ur pastor's wife is also doing dat to ur pastor. So u mean u lack the real love making routine all this four month chai, be claimining born again wen God himself his not happy u not giving him blow job. Be updated even if u are born again n dont say mouth action again, were u a virgin wen he married u mtcheew
ReplyDeleteHis ur hubby right? So y u talking asif u aint married to him.. To show the importance of sex in marriage,the bible saiz if u re fasting nd ur partner hu isnt fasting wants it,dont deny him or her,give it..trust me no mata ao born again a man is,wen it cmes to d mata of sex anything can happen.. dier penis has no conscience oo so dnt come ere crying if he starts cheating bcos of blow job.. learn to compromise,his ur hubby nt ur bf..
ReplyDeleteThis is d reason I tell people to court before marriage even if u had sex no pblm. Imagine wat u are passing thru now all in d name of beign a born again. U have to learn cos it is for better for worse. D same eyes u used in reading all d nasty words here are d same eyes u use in reading ur bible. Many women pray for such marriage bt here u have on a platter of gold and u want misuse it. Dear poster we are talking abt ur hubby here ooo. They said sex is beautiful and sweet wen it cums to marriage. Upgrade and satisfy ur hubby.
ReplyDeleteBefore anything God comes first,dont do anything to displease your God in the course of making your husband happy,who is more important to you,your husband or your God????To put this aside,marriage is give and take,selfishness is out of the picture,equal satisfaction,u do what makes both of u happy,so dont do anything ure uncomfortable with,talk to him about your feelings and stand towards this act,am afraid your husband could also be masturbating,so get on your knees and pray to God about this,only he can help u my friend,cause your marriage wont stand without his hand holding it,dont forget to ask God if hes the right man for you,or innitially u shld hve done that before u said i do,born again men are good but are full of surprises,being born again doesnt make them perfect,its always good and safer to marry your friend,that way, u be sure of what to expect once u say I do.
ReplyDeleteU better follow ur husband orderoooo
ReplyDeleteBegin your hubby, I don't see any problem with that. You are lucky he is still faithful. From d way you speak, I doubt your excellent bed performance, I suggest you upgrade n be on fire when it comes to sexual activities.
ReplyDeleteMa'am, you need to satisfy your husband otherwise someone else will. If he had asked for anal sex then you can pray to God to change him because its from the devil, but my God there is no born again flair here! God sees your spirit not your flesh! This matter needs no prayer SATISFY YOUR HUSBAND! The Bible says the head of of a man is God the head of a woman is her husband! You better blow job him, give him different sex position, before he gets this sex actions elsewhere!
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