What really matters about the size of the pen is when it comes to s ex? Experts have revealed interesting details what women want most and if actually size does matter.
Pen is size is a major source of anxiety for a lot of guys. The anxiety can be bad enough that it completely undermines their self-confidence as s ex partners. This is understandable given the importance of the pen is size in many men’s minds.
But, despite this very real feeling concern, is pen is size that important when it comes down to doing the dirty?
What Exactly Is Average?
Pen is size, much like most human traits, follows the bell curve (no sni ggering at the back). This means that almost all guys fall within the normal range. Very few men have pen ises that would be considered particularly small or large. At one end of the pen is size spectrum is con ge ni tal micro pen is, defined as approximately 2.5 inches or less in length, fully e re ct. About half of 1% of men would fall into this category. At the other end of the spectrum is someone like Jonah Falcon, the man who currently holds the record for the largest pen is. His pe nis is 13.5 inches e re ct, making it extremely difficult if not impossible to have pe ne tra tive s ex. So what’s the average? A recent review of all the studies examining pen is length reported that the average pen is length across more than 15,000 men of several ethnicities was just shy of 5.2 inches, fully e re ct. A 2014 study of American men found that the average e re ct pen is length was about 5.6 inches. Other studies have reported a slightly longer average length. However, pen is length studies are characterized by two pretty significant problems that may lead to an overestimate of average pen is length. First, most studies depend on men to honestly self-report their pen is lengths. It’s too impractical and weird for study participants to have them show up at the lab to be measured by researchers. As such, researchers depend on self-report, but it’s presumed that men will round up or exaggerate their measurements. Second, men with smaller pen ises probably avoid participating in this type of research.
What Does She Prefer?
Recent research emanating from UCLA found that women tended to choose an ideal pen is size length of approximately 6 inches. But, this was in absence of other very important variables (e.g., s ex ual skills, attentiveness, attractiveness, intelligence, personality, chemistry, etc.). This is like asking a group of straight guys to choose a partner based only on ideal br east size. It’s a silly question to ask because the vast, vast majority of men make decisions about who they’ll sleep with or date based on many other more important traits.
Another recent study asked women to rank order seven pen is attributes. Girth was ranked fourth and length sixth. The top three were general appearance, pubic hair appearance, and pen ile skin. In other words, even when forced to choose amongst a set of pen is features, size didn’t really matter that much to the women in the study. It might also be helpful to know that anecdotally, for every woman who prefers a larger pen is, there’s likely one who prefers a smaller pen is. Over my career doing research and clinical work, I’ve heard many times from women with well-endowed partners how uncomfortable s ex can be. Bigger isn’t always better.
Is Size Really That Important?
In the largest and most comprehensive study of men and women’s reasons to have s ex, researchers from Texas identified 237 different motivating factors. Several physical attributes including facial attractiveness, eyes, and general attraction showed up on the list. Peni s size… did not.
Does Her Satisfaction Depend On Your Size?
There are piles of studies on s ex ual satisfaction and they have collectively produced a long list of things that make for good s ex. Things such as attentiveness, s ex ual skills, confidence, comfort, aspects of the relationship, and attitudes towards s ex appear to be very important. Pen is size is only ever mentioned in studies that exclusively focus on pen is size and s ex ual satisfaction. Even then, pen is size does not appear to be that important.
Also worth mentioning, the vast majority of women do not or ga sm through va gi nal pe ne tra tion; they require sti mu la tion of the cli to ris, which has nothing to do with pen is size. Additionally, those who do or ga sm through pe ne tra tion typically do so as a result of sti mu la tion of the mythical “G-s pot.”
While there’s no specific G-s pot structure, there is a region about 2 inches into the va gi na on the front wall that when sti mu la ted, will lead to serious pleasure and or ga sm for some women. That plea sure is likely the result of sti mu la tion of the inner part of the cli to ris and tissue around the urethra. For the minority of women who do or ga sm from va g inal pe ne tra tion, research has shown that pen is length is unimportant to most of them. In other words, a larger pen is is not critical for G-s pot sti mu la tion or va g inal or ga sms. Additionally, a larger pen is can make o ral and a nal s ex more difficult.
What’s The Take-Home Message?
In the end, being a superstar in bed has very little do with pen is size and all to do with many other important factors. Getting hung up on pen is size, despite its perceived importance, distracts you from being a bada ss s ex partner. S ex ual satisfaction for you and your partner will be hindered, but not because of the size of your pen is.
A distracted and anxious s ex partner simply isn’t in the game. Don’t let your penis size worries get in the way of what would otherwise be awesome experiences.
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