Good day sexlife and naija village. pls hide my ID. its urgent. I told my friend about this forum and how confuse problem is been solve with people's advice and she asked me to send this. she is here with me, waiting to read comment. I have been married for 2 years. when we were dating he asked me to send pix of my private part that since it is distance relationship it will help him. i said i cant do that so he stopped. now we are married he has brought same issue begging me that he wants to see my private part and breast in a pix. that he miss me so much. note he has travelled for 2months now to comeback around March. I feel for him but i dont like it. i told him i cant do it and he got angry. pls am confused. whats yoopinion about this. should i send it to him or just let him be angry. though he has not cheated on me and i have not tóo. thanks
Thursday, 26 February 2015
Is It Okay To Send My Husband Nudes?
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Is this really supposed to be an issue? Madam your body belongs to your husband and his body belong to you. He has seen your nakedness..he has touched and felt your private parts..he has stared at them when you guys are naked together..so what is the big deal about sending him a nude pics of you. Dont mind all those pple telling u not to send it. Most of them dont even know what marraige is about. Someone even said it is gross. What is gross about that. Check well that person may even have 5 sex patner who she exposes her body to free of charge and she is acting holier than thou cos a married man want to see pics of his wife's nude body. Madam everyone has their quirks. He is not crazy. That just happens to be his quirk and you shoukd be happy for that..be grateful for it. Some men quirk is sucking their woman's pussy when she is on her menses..some is having anal sex...some is sleeping around with women with big arse.. some is paying prostitutes to strip naked for them to stare at..ur man's own is looking at ur nude picture..so u better be happy about it. If you are worried about your face showing..then u can snap without showing him your face. He is your husband, so learn to tease him with your naked body. People telling you not to send it..when you start seeing nude pictures of other women on his phone, they will be the one to start asking you if you are acting sexy with your husband. Marriage is not all about strong head..its also about compromise and understanding. Good luck
ReplyDeleteHmmm confusing,since he is married to you,why is he asking for ur nude pix again,its not adviseable whatsoever,koz anything can happen o,and it might be use against you later...follow ur mind,buh left to me ooo I wnt advice u to send it,if he truly love you,he will respect you decision
ReplyDeleteChai madam! Madam! I dey type and pity you o, you need to go outside and look at how this hungry girls handle married men,you go sharply send that picture give your husband with immediate alacrity... Girls outside that are looking for men are freaking desperate,shebi him dey ask for your nude pics you dey form for your husband, e be like say your brain never set to realise that the last census in Nija has a ratio of women to men 12:1 less you start forming for your husband.... If all those desperate chick handle am ehn, na when him go begin give you attitude,even to the extent of giving you long term absence you know what I mean... Do this thing now wey your hubby never go outside,because once he taste outside it takes the grace of God to draw his attention back home o.... No mind all this girls wey dey advice you otherwise,most of them are not married o, hmmmm a word is enough for the wise
ReplyDeleteAm really confused bt if I were u,I will nt send it bcos it will prompt him in2 masturbating n if he got addicted 2 it,its difficult 2 stop.advice:jst call him n tell him baby,is nt as if I dnt wnt 2 send it 2 u bt since u hv bn faithful since u travelled,march is jst around d corner n dat u will giv it 2 him as he wnt(as in any style).let him b patience nah
ReplyDeleteMeanwhile u can send it without showing ur face, afterall if anything happen later no face to show
ReplyDeleteWomen will always come up wif excuses to justify ignorance. When u were single, u wud say "I can't do that, I can only do it for ma husband" and now ure married, same old thing. What happens in cancum shud stay in cancum. If u can't tease ya husband and spice up ya marriage, a side chick will. Just pray he don't bring home diseases when he does.
ReplyDeleteI dnt tink any reasonable husband wud demand such 4m his wife.i blve his possessed by d spirit of masturbation while afar 4m his wife.dnt do dat ma dear jst try n talk sense in2 him...if u both av had sex b4,jst tel him 2imagine hw ur private parts luks like.
ReplyDeleteWoman,if i heard u well,u said he's ur husband legally married 2u.I believe ur trying 2 protect nd preserve ur emotion nd body,but 4 who,cant u take risk,cant u make sacrifice,do u know wot risk ur man is taking over dia just 2make sure d family back home is comfortable?Dont worry if u tink ur nude pix ar 2 xpensive 4ur husband,may be he 'll get cheaper ones some where
ReplyDeleteThere's no big deal here, he's your husband and he demands it because he's away from you. Or do you prefer him to look outside to calm his urge down? Don't mind all those people telling you don't to deceive you. They will do it and come out here and pretend. Besides most of them are not married and don't understand.
ReplyDeleteif ur conscience does not allow u to send it, dont send it, if ur christian mind is telling u that its wrong, pls dont send it, but if u think ur man is so horny and wants to see ur nudes to wank off, pls dont send it, tell him to wait till march which is just a few weeks from now to give him a mind blowing i miss u sex, if u already made up ur mind to send it with or without our advice, make sure ur face is not exposed
ReplyDeleteSince he is now your husband is cool, ii don't believe he will stupidly expose them, men are funny oo
ReplyDeleteIf you send that pic,u should know u've introduced a new hobby to him(masturbation) cos that is what he'll be doing with it.I tire for some men sef.
ReplyDeleteMarriage is all about, love, trust n respect. madam it obvious ur hubby doesnt respect u. To me weda u married to him doesnt mean u should send nudes cos hes been away for two months, u can both chat nicely or do what d whites call sexting which does not include nudes. try n talk with him calmly let him learn to understand ur stand on d issue. Good luck
ReplyDeleteif u don't another woman will
ReplyDeletewhat u wouldn't do with ur husband even i he gives u the whole world another woman is willing to do it for free. if u keep turning his offers down he will be willing to fall for any lady out there who will and if that happens forget u will lost him so be wise
Good he is ur husband like u said, my dear in everything in life u hv 2 think of d advantage nd d disadvantage of something b/4 doing it. If u are sure u both will marry each order till death do u path fine but if hmm maybe something happen along de line but god fobid sha, my dear i will advaci u 2 always follow ur heart. I wish u d best. Bye
ReplyDeleteur husband must b masterbathing
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