You Are Worth So Much More Than a Dstv Decoder.

If you find ya self in this category of a very bad situation in the name of marriage, ask ya self, "Why am I putting up with this? Don't I deserve better?" Do all you can to immerse each other in counseling, good communication and problem solving, tackling of trivial issues as they concern ya home but if ya situation does not improve, you don't have to tolerate it, just because you're married. If you feel guilty for ending it, you should feel more guilty that you let yourself to be treated poorly. Over-tolerance of bad behavior is largely ignored by our culture and instead, we are praised for enduring it...which I tag as bad You are allowed to set healthy boundaries for ya self and whoever taught you otherwise is just plain wrong. If you find ya self nodding in acknowledgment that ya marriage is really bad, get the f*ck out now. You are worth so much more than a mere Dstv decoder, stop acting like a dish who'll just stand there and make sure it transmits to the Tv and say nothing.. .stand on ya worth and do something to better ya living before you get drowned by a bad marriage.