No marriage is perfect, we all know it takes a lot of hard work & serious commitment to compromise, they might look like a very small matter but if care its not taken they may become a big deal and might ruin the union.. . These things we call little are bad and are signs of a bad marriage but almost no one talks about it these days, if you are verbally abused, ya partner takes his stressful day out on you when he gets home, insulting over the smallest of offense which an average person would have over look, then ya marriage is taking the wrong turn.. . Some men are so tired of making love to their wives these days that they either get drunk before having sex or don't even have it at all, they stay away from sex with every possibility at their disposal.. .sex shouldn't be begged for, neither should it be forced, the two couples should be in a state of readiness before plugging into one another and anything contrary to that is rape, you might not be in the mood but if ya partner is interested and ready coz you love him/her you should find a way of putting ya self in the mood and connecting with his/her body sexually.. . If you have to always endure an endless passive behavior and ya partner keeps passing comments that are judgmental and condemning like "of course you forgot, you always do" or "No wonder I have to do everything, you can't do anything, you can't take care of a simple chore.. .and the complaints of you not being competent goes on & on.. .this negative comments from a loved one is very hurtful and could ruin ya marriage life a little at a time yet some think it doesn't matter, but they do.. .
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